Well Words Wednesday | Slowing Down to Listen

02 04 2026

Well Words Wednesday | Slowing Down to Listen

Slowing Down to Listen: Silence as a Sacred Practice in Lent

Lent invites us into a different rhythm. In a world that values speed, productivity, and constant noise, the season of Lent gently asks us to slow down. It calls us away from the urgency of doing and toward the holiness of being. Lent is not about adding more to our already full lives, but about creating space—space to listen, to notice, and to be attentive to God’s quiet presence.

“Be still, and know that I am God!” (Psalm 46:10)

Silence is not emptiness. Silence is hospitality. When we practice silence, we make room for God. We step back from the voices that clamor for our attention—news updates, notifications, expectations, and even our own inner commentary—and we allow another voice to be heard. God’s voice rarely shouts. More often, it comes quietly.

After the wind, the earthquake, and the fire, Elijah encounters God in “a sound of sheer silence.” (1 Kings 19:12)

Slowing down during Lent can feel uncomfortable at first. Many of us are not used to silence. When things grow quiet, we may notice restlessness, anxiety, or long-buried thoughts rising to the surface. But Lent teaches us that this discomfort is not something to fear. It is often the threshold of transformation.

Listening is an act of trust. To listen for God’s voice is to trust that God desires to speak—and that we are worth speaking to. Listening is not about forcing clarity or demanding answers. It is about presence.

“Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.” (1 Samuel 3:10)

God’s calling does not always come as a grand revelation. Sometimes it arrives as a gentle nudge, a sense of peace, a stirring of compassion, or a quiet conviction. Sometimes it is felt as a resistance to take action. It asks for our patience. Jesus himself modeled the practice of withdrawal and silence.

“But he would withdraw to deserted places and pray.” (Luke 5:16)

Silence does not require a retreat to the wilderness—though that can be a gift. It can begin with small, faithful practices: a few minutes of quiet prayer in the morning, a slow walk without distractions, a deliberate pause before responding, a moment of stillness before sleep.

Lent as a season of listening. Lent is a journey through the in-between—a liminal season where we loosen our grip on certainty and control and open ourselves to listening to God’s voice and His plan for us.

“Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!” (Psalm 27:14)

This Lent, may we resist the temptation to fill every moment. May we have the courage to be still. May we trust that God meets us in the quiet, and that in slowing down, we may finally hear the voice that has been with us all along.

Heavenly Father,

In the stillness of this Lenten season,
quiet our hearts and slow our hurried lives.
Help us release the noise that fills our days
and the distractions that keep us from noticing your presence.

Teach us to be still,
not in order to escape the world,
but so that we may listen more deeply within it.
Give us the courage to sit with silence,
to trust you in the waiting,
and to remain open to your gentle leading.

When your voice comes softly—
in a nudge of compassion,
a call to rest,
or an invitation to love more fully—
grant us the grace to hear it
and the faith to respond.

As we walk the Lenten path,
shape us through quiet attentiveness,
draw us closer to your heart,
and prepare us for the new life you promise.

We offer ourselves to you in stillness, reflection, and hope,
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen

Greta

Greta Parkinson, MA-LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years experience working with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. She has worked in the public sector as a counselor, policy maker, and director of child, adolescent, and family services, as well as in private practice offering services to children and adults. In her therapy practice she helped clients with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, mood issues, ADHD, parenting issues, career related transitions, relational issues, and other adjustments to life transitions. A parishioner for many years, Parkinson joined the staff of Christ Church Episcopal in 2024.