Well Words Wednesday | Spiritual Wellness: Using Your Spiritual Gifts

02 05 2025

Well Words Wednesday | Spiritual Wellness: Using Your Spiritual Gifts

This month I am going to talk about our spiritual domain of wellness. The Reverend Canon Stephen J. Rhoades spoke recently on the importance of using our God-given gifts. If you were unable to attend the 10:30 worship service on Sunday, January 26 in the historic church, I would highly recommend watching his homily on the Christ Church YouTube channel.

An important part of our spiritual wellness is becoming aware of our unique God-given gifts and determining how we might best use them. When you use your spiritual gifts in ways that align with your true nature, you’re less likely to feel drained or frustrated. You’re not forcing yourself into roles or responsibilities that don’t suit you, which can lead to burnout and frustration. Instead, you’re operating from a place of joy and fulfillment, which supports your own wellness. The more aligned you are with your gifts, the more effective and authentic your service becomes. When you recognize and embrace your gifts, you tap into a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment, which can create a positive ripple effect in all areas of your life.

Spiritual gifts are given by the Holy Spirit to every believer. They are not earned but are given by grace. The primary purpose of our gits is to glorify God and edify the church community. Not everyone has the same gifts, but all are important and work together like parts of a body.

Here are some ways you can assess and identify your spiritual gifts:

  1. Pray for Guidance: Ask God for wisdom and clarity in revealing your gifts (James 1:5). A prayerful approach opens your heart to the Holy Spirit’s leading.
  2. Reflect on Your Passions and Strengths: What activities make you feel spiritually fulfilled? Where do you naturally excel, especially in serving others or contributing to the church community?
  3. Seek Input from Others: Fellow believers can often see strengths or talents in you that you might not recognize. Ask for their feedback on how they see God working through you.
  4. Try Serving in Different Areas: Experiment with various ministries or opportunities for service in your church or community. This hands-on approach can help reveal where you feel most gifted and effective.
  5. Take a Spiritual Gifts Assessment:Your Wellness Ministry will be offering spiritual gift assessments or questionnaires to help identify your gifts. These tools typically ask questions about your personality, interests, and experiences to provide insight.
  6. Pay Attention to Confirmation: As you serve, notice where others affirm your impact or where you see tangible spiritual fruit. For example, if you are effective in encouraging others, it might suggest a gift of exhortation.
  7. Study Biblical Teachings on Gifts: Spend time reading and meditating on passages about spiritual gifts.

Here are a few key passages that highlight the importance of using our spiritual gifts:

1. 1 Peter 4:10-11

"Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God. If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power forever and ever. Amen."
This passage emphasizes that our gifts are meant to be used in service to others, and it reminds us that our service should ultimately bring glory to God.

2. 1 Corinthians 12:4-7

"There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good."

Here, Paul talks about the diversity of gifts and services, all coming from the same God. The purpose of these gifts is for the common good, to build up the body of Christ, and to serve one another.

3. Romans 12:6-8

"We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully."


This passage reminds us that we are each given unique gifts by God's grace, and we are called to use them faithfully in service to others. It is a reminder that no gift is more important than another and that all are essential to the functioning of the body of Christ.

4. Ephesians 4:11-13

"So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ."


This passage highlights that spiritual gifts are given to equip believers for service and to build up the body of Christ. It speaks to spiritual maturity and unity within the faith.

5. Matthew 25:14-30 (The Parable of the Talents)

In this parable, Jesus teaches about using the gifts and resources entrusted to us. The master gives his servants talents (a form of money) and expects them to use them wisely and productively. Those who use their talents faithfully are rewarded, while those who bury their gifts out of fear are chastised. This story illustrates that we are called to use what God has entrusted to us for His purposes.

6. 2 Timothy 1:6-7

"For this reason I remind you to fan into flame the gift of God, which is in you through the laying on of my hands. For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love, and self-discipline."

Paul encourages Timothy to stir up and actively use the spiritual gift God has given him. This passage encourages believers to boldly and faithfully use their gifts, knowing that God empowers us to do so.

7. 1 Corinthians 12:27-31

"Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. And God has placed in the church... apostles, prophets, teachers, miracles, gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues? Do all interpret? Now eagerly desire the greater gifts."

This passage emphasizes that each member of the body of Christ has different gifts, and all are necessary for the church to function effectively. It also encourages believers to seek the gifts that will most help the body of Christ and build it up.

The Bible consistently encourages believers to recognize their spiritual gifts and use them to serve others, build up the church, and bring glory to God. Each gift, regardless of how big or small it seems, plays a crucial role in fulfilling God's purposes. When you’re using your gifts for the benefit of others, you inspire and uplift those around you. This not only serves the people you help but also creates a positive environment that contributes to collective wellness. There’s a sense of harmony and interconnectedness when everyone is contributing in ways that align with their gifts.

Have you been able to identify any of your spiritual gifts? Your wellness ministry will be happy to assist you in that endeavor.

Greta

Greta Parkinson, MA-LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years experience working with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. She has worked in the public sector as a counselor, policy maker, and director of child, adolescent, and family services, as well as in private practice offering services to children and adults. In her therapy practice she helped clients with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, mood issues, ADHD, parenting issues, career related transitions, relational issues, and other adjustments to life transitions. A parishioner for many years, Parkinson joined the staff of Christ Church Episcopal in 2024.